Self Reflection Byte - Tim Ferris With James Clear
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Developing New Habits
- Can my current habits carry me to my desired future?
- Create an environment that will naturally bring about desired change
- When short of time, reduce scope of your habit but stick to schedule rather than do nothing
- Find a way to show up & do it every day
- Reduce the friction to do your habit
- Set your environment to make the habit as frictionless as possible
- On a good day, ask yourself What is the first thing I did to make that day good ?
- Leave your phone in another room
- Identity Based Habits
a. Desire the kind of person you want to be
b. Prove it to yourself with small wins
c. Master the art of showing up & doing those habits consistently
everyday. - New habits should be
a. Obvious - How can I make it more obvious?
b. Attractive - How can I make it more attractive?
c. Easier - How can I make it easier?
d. More satisfying - How can I make it more satisfying? - A habit must be established before it can be improved
- Add some positive emotions to the experience to feel good about the
new habit. - If you are stuck, ask yourself, What would it look like if it was easy?
- Atomic Habits mean get 1% better each day
- Focus on the trajectory & stay on the good path
- If you have good habits,time becomes your ally
- Reinforce your desired identity.
Removing Bad Habits
How to remove bad habits
a. Eliminate
b. Reduce
c.Substitute
Asking for help
- If you ask better questions, you will get better answers
- Advise should fit the context of the person getting advise
- Questions that help improve that person's situation is more correct than providing advise
Awareness
- What am I optimising for?
- What is the real objective or why am I doing this?
- Is this filling me with energy?
- Does the amount of attention that I give to it match it's importance?
Reading & Writing
- Craft great information flows
- The person who crafts good / better information flows gets better
thoughts - Which sources of information are higher signal than others.
- Almost every idea that you have is downstreamed from what you consume.
- When you decide who to follow, you are choosing your future thoughts.
- Find a book that is relevant to what you are writing about
- Start most books & finish them quickly. Scan for points that you want
- Am I writing something relevant, timeless & universal?
- Am I genuinely interested or fascinated with what I am writing?
- Does it create value for people?
- Be consistent & do small things everyday furthering your goal to a
good habit
Life
- What am I trying to win?
- Becoming cognizant of that is the first step
- Find something that keeps working for you in the long run
- Every action you take is a vote for the type of person you wish to
become - Anchor yourself to who you are
- What are my actions moving me closer to & keep track of that
- Success generates not only opportunities but also distractions
- Be careful about what you say "Yes" to